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REMI TINUBU: The Heart That Gives
At first encounter, she strikes you like a gazelle in human skin. Smooth, genteel, unobtrusive, yet noticeable. Propelled into the public eye by the exploits of her husband, Asiwaju Bola Tinubu, in politics and his activities in the struggle that led to the dislodgement of the military from power and the return to democratic rule, Oluremi Tinubu is not someone you can ignore easily. Her life in exile taught her more lessons about life. In the lonesome and uncertain hours and days of the exile years, Remi lived a contemplative life. America gave her a temporary abode, a place she used to come to terms with the needs of her people back home.
Though in exile, she refused to let her mind hole up. Thus nurtured in the lonely and grueling hours of exile and fired on by the lessons of the democratic struggle, she landed back in Nigeria with a crunching desire to impact change in her society. Her heart opened up just about the time her mind came up with ideas about how to give back to the society. She was more than convinced that in giving from her much, she could challenge others to also give. She set herself up through her charity organisation, NEW ERA FOUNDATION, to take from the rich and give back to the poor in different ways.
Ten years after she launched NEF, Remi Tinubu, though out of power as the First Lady of Lagos State, remains the mother of Lagos and a trail-blazer imparting the lives of many and reminding us all that the moment we stop to give to others, we are diminished and losing out on one of life's greatest satisfactions. Remi Tinubu has found her calling and she is on the stump for the youths, the ordinary people, the less privileged. Take a bit of Mother Theresa, mix it up with a bit of Bill Clinton and his obsession with giving back, and wrap it up with Melinda Gates and her support for improved health in the Third World; and you will begin to grasp what Remi Tinubu is all about and what makes her everyday a race to the finish line.
By SUNDAY DARE & 'JIDE IYANDA
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It's 10 years now, give us a flashback; at what point in time did you have that 'brainwave' to start the New Era Foundation? It started from the time we were on self exile. Not knowing what to do; I had two children and my husband was at the forefront of a pro-democracy struggle, and I am just there in an environment that is not my own. Then all of a sudden, almost five years after (being in exile), everything settles and he's running for the office of governor of Lagos State. And that involved me the wife because previously he was just in the Senate and wives are not involved there. So I knew that this is the time despite that I didn't want to be seen too much in public; I'm not a public person but the responsibility is being thrown at me, so I just had to live up to it. I began looking at my environment (in the US) which is a developed world to see what makes it different from where I'm coming from. I found a lot of things which we could bring back, improvise and work with for the good of our people. Being an educationist and because I had young children who were in school, their well structured educational system was the attraction for me. I wondered why we couldn't have such in our country so I kept looking at it. And one of the things I brought back with me was the Spelling Bee. I only ran into it on television for about 10 minutes and professionally I knew I could work with that. Luckily, my husband later became governor; I was back home and I was given a platform to support him. I then asked myself, how do I support and what do the people really want? I went around the state touring the local government areas and talking to the people that this is what I want to do. We eventually launched the New Era Foundation on 21 March 2000.
When you set out, did it occur to you that what started as a little effort then would become what it is today?
It hasn't even grown (giggles). I'm still struggling with it but it's exciting; it's something I feel very passionate about and very committed to. And when I look at the very little achievements we've had and successes here and there, I thank God for that. Weare really working with the people; it's like a hands-on foundation and we see what we've turned around in 10 years. Especially the children from Spelling Bees – what they've become – and we really are glad for that. It's really wrong for us to think that we can change the world in a minute because it's a process. We can only do the bit we can and be satisfied with it, if everyone is doing something such that before you know it, it's everywhere. We have to understand that charity work should be a way of life; it shouldn't be a particular group doing it. To me it's a way of giving back to the society. I've come to a point in my life where I can tell you: I'm full. But I see around a lot of hungry people. And when we think about being full, it's not about a physical meal, it's a spiritual meal. And you have to come to a place of understanding when you know that I think I'm thankful for wherever I am. I can eat three square meals if I choose to, I have a roof over my head, and I have a car to move from place to place. I can afford to go on holiday – it doesn't have to be everywhere – but I thank God for that. So whatever I have that is surplus, I can share. That's where I am right now; doing that.
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